So, you meet a BBW woman you like on the curvy dating apps or sites, and what happens next? Planning the perfect BBW date may be stressful, but we have a few ideas. Here, we want to help you find a chubby dating and recommend the best fat dating apps based on the type or BBW dating relationship you're looking for. But what happens when you find a great app, find great match, and you actually go out on a date?
Coming up with ideas to impress your new date can be stressful. First date isn't usually hard to arrange because it's best to keep it simple and a casual coffee or after-work drink is enough to let you know if you both want to know each other better.
But after that date, the pressure will intensity. Second and third dates can lead to breakups. You're getting to know each other, and a bad date can mean the end. Believe me, once I planned a first date and decide we should meet at the bar. We had a drink at the bar, walked around the food stand, had a delicious Messina dessert that looked like hamburgers and Fried chicken, and listened to some live music. It was a huge success.
He wants to plan a second date. It was a day date and was supposed to be a surprise to me. I was asked to wear "sportswear", which was not what I wanted! I went to pick him up, but he still didn't tell me where we were going, just gave me directions while I was driving. When we arrived at an indoor trampoline center, I tried to fake appendicitis. As a completely incongruous person, this is my worst nightmare. It was hours of energetic, sweaty, embarrassing torture. No third date...
So planning a second or third date is actually a big deal! Who organized it? What does the other person want to do? You want some atmosphere to avoid awkward silence, but not too much, because you don't want to rule it out as romantic!
I was recently in charge of planning our third date, and on our first and second dates, we had decided that we were both foodies and liked to try new things. After searching Google for "fun things" and "Bristol's best dating restaurants," I was more stressed than when I started because I had so many choices. Then I stumbled across something that put my two searches together. It's a dark dinner, you order at the secret award-winning restaurant, blindfolded for a three-course meal. The pressure to choose a good restaurant was removed because I couldn't choose it. We didn't know where the dinner was until Lime & Tonic came forward 24 hours ahead of schedule. Perfect!
The night before our date, I received this message with details about the restaurant. I was relieved to see that it was a great restaurant that neither my date nor I had ever been to and both wanted to try. In the evening, we were taken to a large table in a private area of the restaurant for the same event with other diners. Although we were on a date and sharing a table, we enjoyed chatting with other diners over champagne to start the evening, but once the blindfolded was on, it felt like it was just me and my date at the table.
It was easily the best BBW date I've ever had. It's fun, exciting and a far cry from a standard dinner date. For those of us who are just starting out on a chubby date, it's a perfect atmosphere and there's no pressure to make the evening a success because it's already been a success for us!