When it comes to threesome, many swinger couples would ask how to find the right third to have a couple dating with. Finding someone who is interested in being involved in a threesome with a couple is surly one vital and uneasy thing, especially if you want to find a third whom you are both attracted to. Everyone’s taste varies, even for couples who are married for years or even decades. Many swinger couples take weeks or even months to find the perfect third. Eventually, they gave up for it. Actually, there is no need to find the perfect third for you. It is just a one-time thing. All that matters is when things are finished, you are going home with the person who loves and cares about you and even better, you have a three way adventure together.
I learned this from a threesome experience of mine with my husband. We had a big fight one day and since then, we had been on cold violence with each other for days. To ease the atmosphere, I suggested to have a fetlife together. He agreed. We started to make plans and find the third. We attached great importance to it, because this would be the first 3som after our cold violence. We both wanted to find a perfect third, whom we both attracted to, to join and please us. I wanted a pretty (but not as pretty as I) girl, while my husband wanted a blonde girl with blue eyes. I saw several girls whom I thought they were nice, but my husband thought they were not pretty enough. Either they were too skinny, or they had a mouth that was too big. He also liked several girls, but they were too cute. I told him that the third can’t be prettier than me, or I would feel threatened.
We had another big fight over that issue. Then it hit our mind that the purpose of we doing this is for the good of our relationship, but not making it worse. We finally came into peace with a nice girl. Very pretty. I made the compromise.
We invited her into our house one weekend. After having dinner, this was when things got started. We sit in the couch. I was in the middle. I started to kiss my husband and then invited her in. She was really into me. I suggested her to kiss my husband, but she didn’t care to do it. She went directly to me. She moved from my lips to my whole body. I indicated her several times that she should also make some contact with my husband, but she ignored it. So I was like the queen lying in there and had both of them go down on me. My husband tried to kiss her, but she moved him to me. After finished, she admitted that she was a lesbian and she was really into me. We laughed about it.
My husband was a little disappointed, but he also thought it was hilarious. After the girl left, he hold me into his arms and said “Noting matters as long as I am now with you.”